Posts Tagged ‘ring’

My precious.

Wednesday, December 16th, 2009

This time last year, The Boy Who Would Someday Become The Fiance was keeping secrets from me. You see, he had my engagement ring, and he was hiding it from me. Not at his house, mind you, but in my apartment. He just showed me the spot, too. Sneaky … it was hiding in plain sight in a drawer of my china cabinet. Apparently he had noticed how often we used place mats … which is never, by the way. Not that I would have gone looking for it or anything …

And we’re not just talking about my engagement ring. The Fiance bought my ring as a set, so my e-ring has had a mate since it came home with him. And boy howdy, is it a match made in heaven.BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5415676438574493458″ border=”0″ alt=”" src=”http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_MqIIrVny7AA/SyhZBwOvbxI/AAAAAAAABa0/I7ONjEC2q4A/s320/3232799384_796626e8dd.jpg” />Here’s my engagement ring. Ohhhh preccccious. The center stone is an heirloom from The Fiance’s mother. I actually stumbled across the ring box that her setting came from in the glove box of her car about a week before we were engaged. I flipped out, thinking I had found THE ring. Good thing I didn’t look inside, right? I would have seen a very naked Tiffany setting, and felt very confused. I would have ruined the surprise, I think.

And here is my ring’s BFF:

Hello, lovely.

There it is in it’s little plush grey home. That’s as close as I am allowed to get to it. The Fiance knows me all too well. I have a tendency to want to pull it out and wear it around the house while I’m vacuuming. He swears this is bad luck. No pouting on my part changes his mind. It has to stay in that box, off limits, until September, when my two loves shall be reunited at long last.

One ring was checked off the list a long while ago, but The Fiance’s is still in conversational stages. We’ll be shopping after Christmas, so that my wedding band will have someone to hang out with, and so I won’t need to visit it so often.

What does your set look like? Did they come together or did you have to hunt for a match?



Wedding Bands: Does it matter?

Monday, December 7th, 2009

I have some problems, okay it’s not really a problem at all. It’s me over thinking something because it’s just something I’ve never heard of before. So I decide to come to you ladies for the best advice… because you always convince me I’m either (a) crazy and need to get over it or (b) have a reason to fret and throw me some good alternate solutions.

I’m not getting a wedding band. Refresher, here is my ring:


When I first did a google search I actually found girls in “Yahoo Answers” asking the same thing, but I feel like people will just think I’m only engaged, and not actually married yet. Does that even matter? Probably not.

My ring is very unique and flesh to my finger, so I see no way of having a wedding band without getting something custom which custom means $$$ and my ring is already pretty thick. I couldn’t imagine adding more thickness to it.

So here is the option we are looking at, at the moment. Almost two years before we got engaged, Mr. Mojito bought me this as a promise ring, it’s actually a wedding band:

It is a nice white gold band with seven princess cut stones. I loved this ring and never took it off my left hand for all that time. So it meant a lot to me and was the first amazing big step I ever took romantically. So since I got engaged that ring got put in the ring box that my engagement ring was in with the intentions of possibly using it for a wedding band. Okay, it doesn’t sit up against my engagement ring at all, but it honestly didn’t look that bad. But what I was really thinking was wearing the promise ring / wedding band on my right hand and continue wearing my engagement ring on my left hand. I know it’s not the traditional way to go but I think it works for me, for us.

Thoughts? Is it weird that I’m going different from the norm?



A Teaching Moment

Friday, December 4th, 2009
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Ladies, when your man proposed, did you take the ring from him and put it on yourself? Or, did you let him put it on for you?
If you let him put it on for you, stop and think for a moment.
Did he struggle?
Did your finger hurt afterward?
Don’t worry.
Mine did too.
Since that fateful moment, I’ve been on a mission to help my man learn how to put on rings and how to take them off…without causing pain.
My beau tends to pull rings off holding the top and bottom of the ring.
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I don’t know about you ladies, but that’s nearly impossible on my finger.
Whenever he does it, I just laugh while he fights with it.
After he’s given up on that technique, he tries taking it off by pulling on the sides.

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This is slightly more plausible but tends to cause more pain than his first technique.
This is usually when I get frustrated and pull my hand away.
I then show him how to take it off and how to put it back on.
I tell him {over and over again} that you have to push from the bottom that way the ring fits over the knuckle and will stay in place [forever].
After all, this is important information for the wedding day. I’d hate to be standing on the alter awkwardly while he tried to get the ring on my finger. Best to practice now!
Have you had some teaching moments where your groom just doesn’t get it?



My Man’s Band

Monday, November 30th, 2009
So, its almost that time to pick “the PERFECT” ring for my man…We have decided to go with Tungsten b/c of its durability and shine, and through Superior Weddings – there is a lifetime warranty which obviously helps give piece of mind. The light weight ring is also good for my FH since he’s not really a jewelry type of man… and these are some of my fave choices

All Images via Superior Weddings
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So which one do you like best? Have you picked out your “perfect wedding band”?  What type of metal did you get? What style? Did you get to have a lot of input on what HE wanted?