Posts Tagged ‘something’

Wedding Bands: Does it matter?

Monday, December 7th, 2009

I have some problems, okay it’s not really a problem at all. It’s me over thinking something because it’s just something I’ve never heard of before. So I decide to come to you ladies for the best advice… because you always convince me I’m either (a) crazy and need to get over it or (b) have a reason to fret and throw me some good alternate solutions.

I’m not getting a wedding band. Refresher, here is my ring:


When I first did a google search I actually found girls in “Yahoo Answers” asking the same thing, but I feel like people will just think I’m only engaged, and not actually married yet. Does that even matter? Probably not.

My ring is very unique and flesh to my finger, so I see no way of having a wedding band without getting something custom which custom means $$$ and my ring is already pretty thick. I couldn’t imagine adding more thickness to it.

So here is the option we are looking at, at the moment. Almost two years before we got engaged, Mr. Mojito bought me this as a promise ring, it’s actually a wedding band:

It is a nice white gold band with seven princess cut stones. I loved this ring and never took it off my left hand for all that time. So it meant a lot to me and was the first amazing big step I ever took romantically. So since I got engaged that ring got put in the ring box that my engagement ring was in with the intentions of possibly using it for a wedding band. Okay, it doesn’t sit up against my engagement ring at all, but it honestly didn’t look that bad. But what I was really thinking was wearing the promise ring / wedding band on my right hand and continue wearing my engagement ring on my left hand. I know it’s not the traditional way to go but I think it works for me, for us.

Thoughts? Is it weird that I’m going different from the norm?



I love it and I can do it myself!

Friday, December 4th, 2009

I just have to give a shout out to Gonna Be His Mrs. over at Shooting for a $3,000 Wedding for her recent post on something fabulous! 

She shared a DIY project she found via Martha Stewart that she is considering for a centerpiece idea.  Now just last night I was facebook chatting with my coordinator trying to show her the ideas I had for my table numbers (markers).  I wasn’t overly thrilled with any of them but knew I wanted something with a picture of us on it and something somewhat different.

These were some of the ideas I shared with Amanda from In the Now Weddings:

  
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Sources:  I scrounged these from photog blogs years ago but one is from Serendipity Designs
These are all great ideas but I just wasn’t in love with them.  Then I saw the following idea over at Gonna Be His Mrs.’ blog:
                          
Source:  Martha Stewart
As soon as I saw it, I thought “Man, I can put pictures and a table number in that and it will be totally different, pretty and compliment the place setting which will already have tall floral arrangements with simple votives around it.  And so on my way home from work, I stopped at the Dollar Tree and bought 3 vases for $1 each and grabbed a pack of vellum paper at Michael’s.  Here’s what I quickly printed off my computer in 4×6 sizes for the frames:

The little graphics on the table number image are from our invitations and will be incorporated throughout the wedding.  I was trying to think of how to include them on the tables and this is the perfect way!

I had the mockup sitting on my table when my 20 something girls showed up for bible study and they all fell in love with it, too.  They said they had never seen anything like it and it was a great idea.

So thanks to my fellow blogger friend for sharing a fantastic idea!  (swoon)  So tell me what you think ladies.  And what is something you found on a blog that you just had to do/have for yourself?



Puff Daddy (well Mommy)

Friday, November 27th, 2009

Like hair clips, I am a little obsessed with shoe clips. They can turn any old pair of shoes into something fun and fashionable in a matter of minutes! Imagine with 20 clips you can have 20 different looks (and maybe you’ll get lucky and no one can tell the difference.

These clips range from $5-$25 on my favorite site Etsy and I beg you to check them out. If you are the type of girl who wants something original then this is for you. Not only can they be used at your wedding, but they can also be used for a night out on the town as well.



Conquer Your Depression Today. By: tonystai

Friday, November 27th, 2009

ForeverSunnieDepression is a crippling disease, not just for the person inflicted but also for everyone that cares and loves them. Learn to manage your depression today by using techniques that over time will allow you to conquer your depression on your terms.

This article will cover the groups that depression affects, the signs of depression and some potential techniques for coping. Recognizing that you have depression will set you on the road to managing depression.
Depression really has no age boundaries. Young children starting at age 5 have been found to have depression due to environmental influences. Influences such as divorce, domestic violence, and social rejection are very common in the world today. Teen depression is becoming an epidemic over the last 20 years with teenage suicide being the end result of not receiving treatment. Children and teens often lack the ability to recognize the signs and need to rely on attentive parents to help diagnose the symptoms of depression.

Adults often become depressed from the stresses and anxieties of daily work life and pressures of home life. Adults are much more likely to recognize their symptoms and seek treatment before it becomes a major problem.

Finally, the elderly become depressed for very different reasons. The thought of dying is in itself a depressing thought for most people and as you age you think about it more and more. It is part of your life as those you love begin passing away before you do. Poor health is also a major contributor to depression in the elderly.

For most people, the signs of depression can be easily detected by others that have contact with you on a daily basis. You may begin to lose interest in your job, your relationships with family and friends and in your personal life. You may feel miserable or frustrated inwardly as well as outwardly towards others. Often times there is no apparent reason for these feelings.

Other symptoms of depression include constant negative thoughts, constant fear, feeling lonely and dull even when surrounded by others. And most obviously, any thoughts about committing suicide are sure signs that something is wrong.

Remember, as you review the symptoms of depression above, that having these feelings during appropriate times is perfectly normal (except suicidal thoughts). Death of family member, or loss of job or even a painful breakup can all cause these feelings temporarily. But when these symptoms move from temporary to permanent then something must be done.

Free yourself from bitterness and hatred each day. Avoid going to bed with annoyed and irritable feelings against people you have had a misunderstanding with. Eliminate hatred from your heart and mind. Release all anxieties, tension, and anger on a daily basis.

Another technique is to look for something that you can bring about for another person. If possible, do a nice deed each day. Stretch out to anyone in need. Most importantly, don’t expect recognition because that is not why you are doing it. You are doing it to make yourself feel better not for recognition.

Depression is a mental illness that is normally treatable without medication but requires a commitment to take action to lead a lifestyle free of the triggers of depression. Remember that depression will not only ruin your life but it also negatively impacts the lives of the people around you. If you won’t take action for yourself then take action for those that love you most.